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Spite: The Upside of Your Dark Side

Spite: The Upside of Your Dark Side

by Simon McCarthy-Jones

Basic Books ·2020 ·272 pages ·Social Sciences
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Spite angers and enrages us, but it also keeps us honest. In this provocative account, a psychologist examines how petty vengeance explains human thriving. Spite seems utterly useless. You don't gain anything by hurting yourself just so you can hurt someone else. So why hasn't evolution weeded out all the spiteful people? As psychologist Simon McCarthy-Jones argues, spite seems pointless because we're looking at it wrong. Spite isn't just what we feel when a car cuts us off or when a partner cheats. It's what we feel when we want to punish a bad act simply because it was bad. Spite is our fairness instinct, an innate resistance to exploitation, and it is one of the building blocks of human civilization. As McCarthy-Jones explains, some of history's most important developments—the rise of religions, governments, and even moral codes—were actually redirections of spiteful impulses. A provocative, engaging read, Spite shows that if you really want to understand what makes us human, you can't just look at noble ideas like altruism and cooperation. You need to understand our darker impulses as well.


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"McCarthy-Jones (Can't You Hear Them?"

Philip Zozzaro· Booklist Read review ↗ Top of the Pile

"McCarthy-Jones stretches his argument a bit when he makes the case for the virtues of spite ..."

Sarah Lyall· The New York Times Read review ↗ Near the Top

"Distinct phenomena—envy, sadism, schadenfreude, reckless idealism, world-historical malice—get flattened."

Charlie Tyson· The Atlantic Read review ↗ Near the Top

"The book lays out how social dominance theory triggers spite and how spiteful actions in defense of sacred issues can devolve into grievances or blossom into just causes."

Karen R. Koenig· The New York Journal of Books Read review ↗ Near the Top

"It will find a natural place in all major academic libraries, as well as in larger public library collections."

Steve Dixon· Library Journal Read review ↗ Near the Top

"Unfortunately, McCarthy-Jones's descriptions of various experiments are not extremely detailed."

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