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Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us

Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us

by Rachel Aviv

Farrar, Straus and Giroux ·2022 ·276 pages
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In Strangers to Ourselves, a powerful and gripping debut, Rachel Aviv raises fundamental questions about how we understand ourselves in periods of crisis and distress. Drawing on deep, original reporting as well as unpublished journals and memoirs, Aviv writes about people who have come up against the limits of psychiatric explanations for who they are. She follows an Indian woman, celebrated as a saint, who lives in healing temples in Kerala; an incarcerated mother vying for her children's forgiveness after recovering from psychosis; a man who devotes his life to seeking revenge upon his psychoanalysts; and an affluent young woman who, after a decade of defining herself through her diagnosis, decides to go off her meds because she doesn't know who she is without them. Animated by a profound sense of empathy, Aviv's exploration is refracted through her own account of living in a hospital ward at the age of six and meeting a fellow patient with whom her life runs parallel―until it no longer does. Aviv asks how the stories we tell about mental disorders shape their course in our lives. Challenging the way we understand and talk about illness, her account is a testament to the porousness and resilience of the mind.


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"If there is an argument she wants to advance, it is that the stories we tell about distress, and unusual, sometimes destructive behaviour, are just that – stories."

David Shariatmadari· The Guardian Read review ↗ Top of the Pile

"a stunning book, offering sensitive case histories of people whose experiences of mental illness exceed the limits of psychiatric terminology, diagnosis and treatment ..."

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"Aviv is especially sharp in the granular — by focusing on the unique composition of each of these individuals' perceptions, she can show how they change shape as soon as they come into contact with perceptions crafted in the forge of social history ..."

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"One of the pleasures of this book is its resistance to a clear and comforting verdict, its desire to dwell in unknowing."

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"She is hyperaware of just how sensitive the scale of the self can be."

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"perceptive and intelligent ..."

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"showcases her mastery of psychological portraiture."

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"This eye-opening examination makes for a valuable addition to modern discourse around mental illness."

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"Her own language is meticulous, empathic, tirelessly inquisitive."

Hephzibah Anderson· The Guardian Read review ↗ Top of the Pile

"a book-length demonstration of Aviv's extraordinary ability to hold space for the 'uncertainty, mysteries and doubts' of others."

Jennifer Szalai· The New York Times Read review ↗ Top of the Pile

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